DEATH IS A CERTAINTY Learn To Cope With Death And Move On ? | |
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? You probably answered yes to all of the above questions. If you did know that you're not alone. Many have gone through or are going through the bitterness and grief resulting from a death in the family or within their tight circle of friends. Dealing with the loss of a loved one-spouse, child, family member, or close friend-is a reality we all face in life. The grieving process affects all of us-it's just a matter of when. We can't escape this. Grief Consumes Life Let me tell you the story of my friend-let's call her Lisa. I had talked with her often and I wanted to share with you her experience after the death of her mother. It happened a few years ago and according to Lisa she found herself struggling to deal with not only the death of her mother but also the grief of both her father and younger brother. Being the eldest she had to handle everything-deal with the legalities as well as taking care of the family. The emotional strain took its toll on Lisa. She became mentally distanced. In her words she had shut herself away along with her grief just so she can deal with the day to day stuff of managing the family that was left behind. It worked to the extent that she was able to do what she was supposed to do but it never really took care of the problem-the pain and bitterness of the loss of her mother. Basically every time she forgot herself the pain, the loss and the confusion all came flooding back. And when that happened she shut herself more and more. Her actions and reactions may be difficult to fathom but hardly surprising. After all, death, dealing with the loss and grief are probably some of the least discussed, talked about and understood parts of our life. Grief Can Isolate You |
Lisa's experiences are by no means singular and is often repeated through different scenarios across the country if not the world. In fact you may know of people who have had the same experience as Lisa if not you. The thing is her reaction is normal considering what she went through. It's because there is no right or wrong way to grieve for those we have lost. And since we are all different from one another, death and the grief that comes with it affects each of us in quite different ways. What this means is that with the proper help anyone can overcome the death of a loved one and recover from the effects of grief and loss. Why Am I Saying All These Things To You Because I don't want anyone to be left alone and hurting by yourself in this, there time of need. I know what it's like. I too have known what it means to lose someone near and dear to you. The pain and anguish is indeed unbearable. It is not something one can take lightly and think one is healed. It is because of that experience and from the experience of people that I've talked to like Lisa that I resolved to find a better way to live while grieving. With that determination I did my own research, read as many books and articles I could about grief and what it was that was problematic about the whole process. I also talked to a lot of people regarding their grieving. I also talked to people from the other side of the spectrum, i.e. the funeral homes and such, so that I could get a clearer picture of the whole thing. Because of that I was able to get better understanding as to why I felt and acted that way when my Grandmother died, why my parents acted the way they acted, and why Lisa, whom you met above, acted the way she did. It's from this mindset that I wrote my guide "Healing After Death" because I truly believe that we can all heal ourselves from the pain, bitterness and anguish that comes with the death of a loved one or special close friend. And To Whom Is This Work For? It's for those people who don't want to be the victim of grief and loss. It's for those people who don't want to give up on life because you have got to know that after the death there is still life - namely yours. What I am offering right right here, right now is information and knowledge that can help you understand that what comes after death and loss is grief. Understand that this is a normal human reaction and that even though it may seem difficult at first anyone can get out of it - you can get out of it. How you heal and when you heal is up to you. It helps when you have something to give you the boost in that department. |
To help hold your hand, be a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen and a hand to give you the push in the right direction. Unfortunately there are just some things we can't overcome - like the geographical distance for example and the fact that there is just one of me. But if there's a will, there will always be a way and I have found that way with my easy-to-follow guide. "Healing After Death" is the support you need to move on and overcome the bitterness and grief associated with a death.
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Death is a tragic event and when it happens is always accompanied by a great deal of bitterness and grief. While it is not that easy to overcome the bitterness and grief associated with death, journaling makes process of healing a little bit simpler. Journaling is a form of writing therapy that uses the act of writing and processing the written word as therapy. The premise is by writing things down it helps to gradually ease the pain. A benefit of journaling is that the act of writing down one's meaningful thoughts and feelings puts a powerful brake on one's torment of endlessly going over the same troubled thoughts in one's mind and heart. Dr. Hernandez Is An Expert In Coping Dr. Robert B. Hernandez is a Psychologist and the President and Founder of La Farfalla Retreat House. In the video below he quickly goes over the ways to cope with the death of a loved one and emphasizes the need to give yourself time to deal with the loss. He also talks about journaling as well as crying and even talking with the person as if he or she were still there. "The grieving and the loss is very natural and it's the way that we need to cope with . . ." |
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1. Understand yourself and regain control of your life to choose the best way for you to move on and recover from the loss. 2. Be able to better decide on what to do next after the grief. 3. Be able to comfort others who are going through the same thing you did. More importantly you will be able to let go of the pain so you can heal your heart and live your life in celebration of theirs. In the end, you become a stronger person and will be able to share your fond memories of the way they live and not the way they died. Remember: death is but another plane of existence. They have move on to a higher level. Shouldn't you move on with yours? Be Stronger And Comforting To Others |
Not only will you lose the pain of grief you will also lose other things as well. Such things as the following:
Reminisce Their Lives And The Way They Live |
And the way they lived their life in celebration. Something you wouldn't be able to do if you get yourself stuck in grief mode for the rest of your life. Grief and loss are a part of our lives. It is an emotional pain that goes beyond anything you can imagine. If you're someone who has already experienced the pain of the loss and is with someone grieving then this guide is of great value to you and to them. With this you will have a greater understanding of the pain and at the same time be better equiped with the tools you need to help those grieving - be it your friend or family or even you in the future. |
? Grieve because it's necessary but do not let it bog you down forever. Why? Because hanging on to the pain of the loss of a loved one is counter-productive not only to your emotional and physical health and well being but also to your whole life as well. Once you let the grief take over you'll find it that much more difficult to seek your own happiness and to move on to your own life after them. They may be dead but you are still here - alive and living. Why spend your life being miserable and in pain when you can live it to the fullest in memory of them. It's something you should do and it's probably something they would want you to do. So get a move on and move on. |
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? Death happens - Live with it. It's painful and devastating especially if it's someone you love and care about. But it doesn't mean you can't move on and live your life without being bogged down by grief and everything else associated with their death. I doubt if they would like you to suffer that way if they were alive. And it's not like I'm saying you should forget them altogether. What I'm saying is that for only $27 you can give yourself a helping hand so you can overcome the grief and heal yourself so you can actually go back and remember them fondly without pain. SECURE ACCEPTANCE FORM I understand that for a LIMITED TIME ONLY, I can get Healing After Death plus all the 5 bonuses for just $27. And I also understand that my order is 100% risk free with your 60 days, 100% money back guarantee. As soon as your payment is authorized (this usually takes less than a minute), you will be given instructions on how to download Healing After Death and the accompanying bonuses. Get your copy of my guide and get 5 great bonuses absolutely FREE. You also get my 100% Iron-Clad 60-day No-Questions-Asked Money-Back-Guarantee: if Healing After Death" is not everything you want it to be, let me know within 60-days and I will refund your money swiftly without any hassles. I'll take the risk so you don't have to.
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